A Hypothetical Example Of How Some Church Services Could Go

[fast and upbeat praise/worship music]

[then slower calmer more meditative church music]

[then the "pastor" says something like 'Is anyone facing difficulties in their lives who would need more intimate involvement before we look at today's biblical lessons?']

[then the pastor gets to see who really needs help and their assistances approach them during this more calming type of moment]

[it's a little bit quieter as the pastor's aid's attend to see who needs what and how desperately]

[the aid's do their part during this quiet moment to find out the intensity of the problem]

[those that actually need help are then dealt with even by leading them away from the main church service]

[the pastor would then be taking a closer look at the study they have prepared and possibly pray themselves]

[and then the more biblical/spiritual part of the church service begins!]

[during this main portion, couples are welcomed to hold hands]

*Long ago I took a trip to Paris.  I went to very many tourist attractions.  At a certain museum, I recalled the slogan "where we walk hand in hand" on an artwork.

Beyond this, the best advice that I could possibly provide a general guideline is to possibly include some of the news of the world in the sermon unless the news that's going on around you is better then the news you could provide.